Father's Day

To all the fathers who will read this post ~

I hope that you are being remembered in some thoughtful way. Also reciprocate in kind if your father is still with you. For me the day is bittersweet since it will be exactly 18 months since my father left this earth. Dad was a strict disciplinarian, an educator and a father of five. Not only did he teach academics but he taught lessons that remain with me today. Even though Dad was not big on showing affection, I knew I was loved. Being his only daughter did not give me the privilege of being a princess, I had to pull my weight. I am glad that he did that since I matured into a very independent soul and can take care of myself. Sometimes this asset can be a curse because it is difficult for me to ask for help when I really need it.

Dad suffered from the effects of Parkinson's disease and it was hard to watch him physically deteriorate. Thank the almighty God that he was still "sharp as a tack" mentally to the end. He always told us that "actions speak louder than words" and his actions throughout his life spoke volumes. Dad's legacy to me was how to live and die with dignity. Even though I miss him, I know that he is in a far better place. Thanks Dad for being you!

~butterfly angel~